07 Apr 2002 #0214.html

Light at the End of the Tunnel

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Dear Paul and Kate, Melanie and Jared, Bridget and Justin, Sara, Ben and Sarah, Heather, Audrey, Rachel, and Matt via hardcopy,

cc: file, Tony Hafen, Pauline Nelson via mail, Sara and Des Penny, Lloyd and Luana Warner, Diane Cluff, and Maxine Shirts.

Welcome to "Thoughtlets." This is a weekly review of an idea, belief, thought, or words that will hopefully be of some benefit to you, my children, with an electronic copy to on-line extended family members. Any of you can ask me not to clutter your mail box at any time.

"Quiet week. I worked at home all week. Most of the time was spent getting a proof-of-concept project together for Arnie Vedlitz (see http://www.walden3d.com/H, for Harris County). I'm really excited about the potential impact of this work on on the way politics works in the United States, and eventually in the world. Then again, I have to realize I am the only person in the world, now that Bill Bavinger is dead (../9803.html) that sees this potential impact of the Infinite Grid(SM). Oh well!

I wrote a song while Andrea was out running errands Monday afternoon, and added a verse each day. It summarizes my activity for the week (capo on 2nd fret):

` Am G F E Am C1. There's light at the end of the tunnel C G F C V1. The Shell contract came today C G F C Its not perfect, in every way C G G C And it will pay the bills C G F C While I'm still climbing them there hills Am G F E C2. Finding my future, not as a moocher Am G F E Am There's light at the end of the tunnel V2. Christian Singfield called today He signed a contract with CDX yesterday Over a decade of work, digital rock scans Taking the best perk, trusting fate's fans C3. Finding his future, not as a moocher Christian will surely find There's light at the end of the tunnel V3. Mark Libner contacted me yesterday Wanted to know if he could work with me someway Continuum Resources has gone away He's out of money and has a lot to say C4. Finding his future, not as a moocher Mark is pursuing an ideal Breaking new ground, making the world better There's light at the end of the tunnel V4. Ken Turner called earlier today He's giving marketing rigths to his new painting away `Out of the Ashes' is powerful Hopefully Ken, will realize some gold C5. Finding his future, not as a moocher Ken is going national There's light at the end of the tunnel V5. Bob Burton sent several e-mails today Setting up a meeting to see if MKS will pay If two million dollars goes in the well tank There's thirty thousand, which ends up in my bank C6. Finding my future, not as a moocher There's light at the end of the tunnel V6. . . .'


I think the words are pretty self explainatory. The Shell Contract is good. Guess it is a good thing for me Paul Sullivan showed up at church a few weeks ago (0208.html). Christian Singfield swears he is going to get me on a retainer for setting this whole deal up for him. Mark believes he can make us both a bunch of money, and it looks like he will end up working for Christian. Ken Turner is sure he has a national hit on his hands, and I encourage him to not spend the money until he has it. The Finders Fee through Bob Burton was somewhat unexpected. It is at 1 1/2% of invested money, and the meeting is Tuesday. The conversations with MKS Oil & Gas are still going strong, although there has been some waffling about the retainer. So, I spent the week working on the example for Texas A&M University, answering e-mails, and only went out to run some documents over to Horace Snyder's house. Andrea is happy about the looming Shell contract, and I am too.

Yesterday morning was choir practice, and then General Conference. It was suprising at first that the only words said about the Isreal-Palestine conflict was in the opening prayer by Bruce Hafen. I believe there were three references by members of the First Presidency to those who choose to be detractors. When we came home from the Saturday morning session, I was eating something and asked Matt if he wanted to go out to dinner or to get some ice cream with me either before or after Priesthood Meeting. He responded, `No, I don't want to go with you. Seems to me like every time I go with you there is a problem, and so I'll get Mom to take me down!'

Matt knows how to push my buttons. I seldom get angry these days, and this got me angry. It's like someone (and I choose to believe it is the father of all contention) put in his little mouth the words to say: `You are totally responsible for the fact three of your boys don't go to Priesthood Meeting at all! You are a bad Father! You suck!'

I didn't go to Matt's soccer game, and even though he ended up riding to Priesthood Meeting with me, as normal, he was off somewhere else, rather than sitting and listening to the counsel from the Prophets and Apostles. I dropped him off at the house, and went and got myself an ice cream, telling myself I'm not responsible for the choices of others. I wrote in my journal:

`Maybe I want my sons to honor their priesthood too much, and create reactions by looking beyond the mark. It hurts more than I have words!'


I thought about summarizing all of the conference talks from my notes for the rest of this Thoughtlet. Then I realized those who are interested will either attend or check the talks out of their ward library. There was one theme that was very consistant, and which I want to mention. It was prayer. Prayer is wonderful, and as I work with many earth scientists who have no idea how to pray, it makes me sad. It is sad to think there are parents who do not teach their children by example to pray. To express thanks for their meals, their things, and their opportunities. It is sad there are parents who strive to undo the teachings of their `help meet,' with stuff like, `Oh, we don't need to go to church when they're out of town!' Everyone is going to face trials in their lives. It is much easier to tap into the source of all peace and truth if we have been practicing in the good times, than to attempt to make connection when there is an emergency. And we all enter tunnels in our lives. It is so nice when we have the light of Christ with us when we are in the dark and are afraid. I know from personal experience that it is not scary in the dark when an elder brother is there to comfort and guide me towards the light at the end of the tunnel."

I'm interested in sharing weekly a "thoughtlet" (little statements of big thoughts which mean a lot to me) with you because I know how important the written word can be. I am concerned about how easy it is to drift and forget our roots and our potential among all of distractions of daily life. To download any of these thoughtlets go to http://www.walden3d.com/thoughtlets or e-mail me at rnelson@walden3d.com.

With all my love,
Dad
(H. Roice Nelson, Jr.)

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