06 Jun 2004 #0423.html

Ronald Reagan

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Dear Paul and Kate, Melanie and Jared, Bridget and Justin, Sara, Ben and Sarah, Heather, Audrey, Rachel, Matt via hardcopy, and Brian,

cc: file, Andrea, Tony Hafen, Sara and Des Penny, & Maxine Shirts

Welcome to "Thoughtlets." This is a weekly review of an idea, belief, thought, or words that will hopefully be of some benefit to you, my children, with an electronic copy to on-line extended family members. Any of you can ask me not to clutter your mail box at any time.

"Last night, at the marriage and reception of Kristin Marie Henderson and David Andrew Leavell, I was contemplating what I would write about this week. At the dinner the folks we were sitting next to, now two married couples who from 1981 to 1991 lived next to the vacant lot on Partridge Run, mentioned that Ronald Reagan died yesterday. When I realized this, I realized that this is a topic I could write more than you want to read about. However, I won't, partly because I am so far behind on writing my weekly Grandkidlets (http://www.walden3d.com/grandkidlets), and want to get caught up on that.

Like everyone in the U.S. I became aware of the importance Like everyone in the U.S. I became aware of the importance of the President of the United States as I grew up. I remember being shocked with the assassination of John F. Kennedy (as is shown by previous words in ../9814.html, ../9930.html, and ../0138.html). However, I was first directly introduced to presidential politics in 1984 when Mom drove Ray Gardner and me to Page, Arizona, 15 miles south of Kanab, to listen to Barry Goldwater's last speech as a republican presidential candidate against Lyndon B. Johnson of Texas. I recall the speech being dynamic. However, what I mostly recall was the superstitious circumstances: Goldwater gave the talk because he never lost an election if he talked at Page, Arizona the night before a vote. It didn't seem right to be voting for someone to run the United States who was this superstitious. That is not what my Mom wanted to hear from me, and I'm not sure I even said it.

I have never studied recent Presidential politics, and so you kids are probably much more aware of things about Ronald Reagan than I am. For instance, as I read the paper this morning, it was the first time I realized that Ronald Reagan was the only significant benefactor from the Goldwater run at the Presidency. He had put together an ad for Goldwater at the very end of the campaign. Having grown up as a left leaning Democrat, it was Barry Goldwater that led Reagan to become what the Chronicle described as `the idol of the conservative movement.' Based on that advertisement, some business executives in California got him to run as Governor of California, and the rest is history.

The great communicator had a big impact on my life, and from this perspective on each of our lives. Ronald Reagan was the President of the United States from 1981-1988, during the time I was at the Seismic Acoustics Laboratory and the first years of Landmark Graphics. His comments about the Evil Empire are directly related to the reasons I never went to Russia for Landmark Graphics. His visit to Beijing and interactions with the communist Chinese was one of the reasons I have spent so much time in the Far East. I was in the Far East when the U.S. invaded Granada, and I recall the anti-American fervor portrayed on television and in newspapers like the China People's Daily, over this `act of aggression.'

I found it interesting to read, and to recall, and to relate to what is happening in Iraq today (see Soldiers_A.gif to right) that `Reagan's decision to send U.S. Marines as peacekeeping forces in Lebanon resulted in the death of at least 241 military personnel in 1983 when a suicide bomber drove a truckload of explosives into a U.S. barracks.' Ronald Reagan had faced death and was `far more gravely wounded than friends or aides would admit when John Hinckley shot him on March 30th, 1981.' However, his good health helped him recover, just as the soldiers resting in Iraq recover (see Soldiers_B.gif below).

It is contradictory that Ronald Reagan's words about keeping government spending under control were not reflected in the growth of the federal deficit `from the $1 trillion that had accumulated from George Washington through Carter to $3 trillion at the end of his eight years in office.' My personal opinion is that he believed in his approach, and that it simply was not sound economically.

In welfare meeting this morning, the thought that was given included Ronald Reagan's statement on the death of the prophet Spencer W. Kimball on 06 November 1985: `Spencer W. Kimball spent a long and full life devoted to his church and the service of his fellow man. As a young man, he combined dedication to work with an active role in charitable and community work, exemplifying the Mormon ethic of rugged free enterprise and mutual aid. Following in the footsteps of his grandfather, a contemporary of Joseph Smith, Spencer Kimball went on to 30 years of service in his church's governing Council of Twelve Apostles, before becoming president in 1973. Nancy an I note with sorrow the passing of one of the important figures of our generation. Our deepest sympathy goes out to his wife and family.'

Although Ronald Reagan talked a lot about family values, his family seems to me to be much more dysfunctional than we are. Maybe his optimism was rooted in his lack of a short term memory, which is a normal consequence of his Alzheimer's disease he announced to the world in November of 1994. I know that Ronald Reagan's memory loss was one of the things that focused my attention on more discoveries that the aluminum in deodorant's is a probably major cause of Alzheimer's, and my subsequent switching from using deodorant to simply using rubbing alcohol (../0340.html and 0419.html). There is no question in my mind as to his reaction to those who do remember (see Soldiers_C.gif). And as I write these words about remembering, my mind goes to the Beaches of Normandy and the fact Uncle Des and Aunt Sara are there this weekend for commemoration of that great day. Maybe one or both of you could send a letter with your feelings about being at this commemoration for me to include in a future Thoughtlet?

Lastly, I wish I had some small part of Ronald Reagan's ability to use humor to disengage an adversary. When we got back from our neighbor's daughter's wedding last night, Kristin Henderson, I turned on the television for the first time, and Aaron Brown had a segment on Reagan's humor. For example in a debate in October of 1984 with Walter Mondale he said: `I will not make age an issue of this campaign. I am not going to exploit for political purposes my opponent's youth and inexperience.' Possibly if I knew how to use humor better, I would not have people thinking or telling me how `you broke your pick' (0414.html). Maybe it is still possible for me to learn how to pick up and reassemble the pieces with humor?

As far my week, it was a week of catch-up. Monday was Memorial Day, and I ended up watching 4 or 5 war movies since Melanie was not ready for us to go to Vidor and help paint. I did spend all of that time working on a project I have been interested in doing for years, which is an outgrowth of Bill Bavinger's patterns of patterns of patterns of patterns. In this case I am looking for the fingerprint of God in the text of The Book of Mormon. I probably have several months of data organization and filtering before I will be able to report any success or failure with this project.

I have been working on the rock properties studies of the Gulf of Mexico at work using SpotFire. The results are quite interesting, and when I get some pictures that at least Des and Paul might me interested in, I will send them with a Thoughtlet. Tuesday night we had a lively discussion with Matt. Somewhere along the line he said `I was only 12 and I was reckless.' I told him this would be a great line in a song, and he gave me permission to use it. Later in the conversation he came out with another gem: `I've never lost, I choose not to win.' What an interesting philosophy, or at least an interesting way to face things not going well.

Andrea spent Wednesday and Friday helping Melanie and Jared and Marti paint. Melanie, thanks for your kind words about her contribution. Both Andrea and I were very appreciative of your kind words. Andrea does know what she is doing, and she does those things she knows very well. Rachel and I watched two Enterprise segments which I had seen before on Wednesday night. On Thursday night I brought home the computer and worked on my Book of Mormon project while watching two Tarzan movies. I was thoroughly entertained with these old movies, which have some similarities with Ronald Reagan's B-movies. Andrea drove some youth to Youth Conference Thursday evening, and so Rachel and I went out to dinner at Hartz Chicken. She had a date later in the evening with an impressive young man from Hurricane, Utah.

Friday was very busy getting my new computer working with some Linux software for Mike Dunn to take to Europe for the EAGE Convention in Paris (European Association of Geoscientists and Engineers). In the afternoon I used HyperEdge to put together a montage of all of the SpotFire examples I have put together for the Gulf of Mexico. Matt was at Youth Conference at Camp Bovay, Rachel was at work, and Andrea was in Vidor. I stopped at a computer store on the way home and bought Sara Ellyn's early birthday present. Then I went to Wendy's for dinner and to Randall's for roses and a treat. The bottom line is I ate a big bag of cheetoes while I put together a bunch of digital photographs to send to Sara.

Yesterday I finally had my eyes examined. It has been over four years since I've had my glasses replaced, and they have been held together with tie-wraps the last couple of years. Distance hasn't changed much, and close-up focusing has changed a lot. Everything is pretty normal, except I am suppose to start using artificial tears three times per day. Oh well! Guess there are worse issues to face when one gets older. I spent most of the day cleaning out my e-mail box. I got it from over 600 down to 210 messages. A couple seem worth passing on, including this one from Steve Joseph about billboards in Goldwater country:

`1. New billboards are getting attention in Arizona. Some reported seeing one or two messages, but the newspaper listed all of them. Here's a list of all variations of the "God Speaks" billboards. The billboards are a simple black background with white text. No fine print or sponsoring organization is included. These are awesome... enjoy. ------------ Tell the kids I love them. -God --------------- Let's meet at my house Sunday before the game. -God ------------ C'mon over and bring the kids. -God --------------- What part of "Thou Shalt Not..." didn't you understand? -God ------------ We need to talk. -God ------------ Keep using my name in vain, I'll make rush hour longer. -God ------------ Loved the wedding, invite me to the marriage. -God --------------- That "Love Thy Neighbor" thing... I meant it. -God ------------ I love you and you and you and you and... -God ------------ Will the road you're on get you to my place? -God ------------ Follow me. -God ------------ Big bang theory, you've got to be kidding. -God ------------ My way is the highway. -God ------------ Need directions? -God ------------ You think it's hot here? -God --------------- Have you read my #1 best seller? There will be a test. -God ------------ Do you have any idea where you're going? -God --------------- (And my personal favorite...) Don't make me come down there. -God ------------ **Send this on to someone you care about. I just did.**'


Or these two from Hayden Hudson:

`1. Subject: FW: Illegal Aliens Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!!! Cows... Is it just me or does anyone else find it amazing that our government can track a cow born in Canada almost three years ago, right to the stall where she sleeps in the state of Washington. They can also track her calves to their stalls, BUT... They are unable to locate 11 million illegal aliens wandering around our country. I guess the solution is to give every illegal alien a cow as soon as they get here! 2. Subject: WOW, WHAT A WAKEUP Dear God: Why didn't you save the school children at .. . . Moses Lake, Washington 2/2/96 Bethel, Alaska 2/19/97 Pearl, Mississippi 10/1/97 West Paducah, Kentucky 12/1/97 Stamps, Arkansas 12/15/97 Jonesboro, Arkansas 3/24/98 Edinboro, Pennsylvania 4/24/98 Fayetteville, Tennessee 5/19/98 Springfield, Oregon 5/21/98 Richmond, Virginia 6/15/98 Littleton, Colorado 4/20/99 Taber, Alberta, Canada 5/28/99 Conyers, Georgia 5/20/99 Deming, New Mexico 11/19/99 Fort Gibson, Oklahoma 12/6/99 Santee, California 3/5/01 and El Cajon, California 3/22/01 ? Sincerely, Concerned Student Reply: Dear Concerned Student: I am not allowed in schools. Sincerely, God How did this get started.... Let's see, I think it started when Madeline Murray O'Hare complained she didn't want any prayer in our schools. And we said, OK... Then, someone said you better not read the Bible in school, the Bible that says "thou shalt not kill, thou shalt not steal, and love your neighbors as yourself," And we said, OK... Dr. Benjamin Spock said we shouldn't spank our children when they misbehave because their little personalities would be warped and we might damage their self-esteem. And we said, an expert should know what he's talking about so we won't spank them anymore... Then someone said teachers and principals better not discipline our children when they misbehave. And the school administrators said no faculty member in this school better touch a student when they misbehave because we don't want any bad publicity, and we surely don't want to be sued. And we accepted their reasoning... Then someone said, let's let our daughters have abortions if they want, and they won't even have to tell their parents. And we said, that's a grand idea... Then some wise school board member said, since boys will be boys and they're going to do it anyway, let's give our sons all the condoms they want, so they can have all the fun they desire, and we won't have to tell their parents they got them at school. And we said, that's another great idea... Then some of our top elected officials said it doesn't matter what we do in private as long as we do our jobs. And we said, it doesn't matter what anybody, including the President, does in private as long as we have jobs and the economy is good... And someone else took that appreciation a step further and published pictures of nude children and then stepped further still by making them available on the Internet. And we said, everyone's entitled to free speech.... And the entertainment industry said, let's make TV shows and movies that promote profanity, violence and illicit sex... And let's record music that encourages rape, drugs, murder, suicide, and satanic themes... And we said, it's just entertainment and it has no adverse effect and nobody takes it seriously anyway, so go right ahead... Now we're asking ourselves why our children have no conscience, why they don't know right from wrong, and why it doesn't bother them to kill strangers, classmates or even themselves. Undoubtedly, if we thought about it long and hard enough, we could figure it out. I'm sure it has a great deal to do with... "WE REAP WHAT WE SOW," Pass it on if you think it has merit! If not then just discard it...but if you discard this thought process, then don't you dare sit back and complain about what bad shape this world is in...'


Or this one, also from Steve Joseph:

`I didn't write this letter, I'm just forwarding it. I do feel the same, although I'm not a Viet-Vet. An open letter to Senator John F. Kerry: My wife had rotator cuff surgery earlier this year and the recovery is terribly painful. Then she developed staph-epi infection, and they had to cut the same scar open and operate on her again. Just thinking about the pain and anxiety of facing that painful surgery a second time in the same scar makes me cringe. That experience, however pales in comparison to what I am going through right now in my heart. The old hurts are surfacing and the feelings of betrayal by fellow citizens, and their leader stirring them up, are breaking my heart again. I am being cut in the same scar. How did we who served in Vietnam suddenly become cold blooded killers, torturers and rapists of the like of the Nazi SS or the Taliban? Most of us were American soldiers who grew up idolizing John Wayne, Roy Rogers and all the other heroes. That was why we volunteered. But for political expediency, you, John Kerry, have rewritten history again. After spending only four months in the country of Vietnam, you testified before Congress in 1971 in these exact words about incidents you supposedly witnessed or heard about from other vets: "They personally raped, cut off ears, cut off heads, taped wires from portable telephones to human genitals, turned up the power, cut off limbs, blowed up bodies, randomly shot at civilians, razed villages, shot cattle and dogs for fun, poisoned food stocks, and generally ravaged the countryside of South Vietnam." I was a green beret officer who volunteered for duty in Vietnam and fought in the thick of it in 1968 and 1969 on a Special Forces A-team on the Ho Chi Minh Trail, just for starters. We were the elite. We saw the most action. Everybody in the world knows that. But we did not just kill people. We built a church, a school, treated illnesses, passed out soap, food and clothing and had fun and loving interaction with the indigenous people of Vietnam, just like our boys did in Normandy, Baghdad, Saigon and everywhere American soldiers ever served. We all gave away our candy bars and rations to kids; our hearts to oppressed people all over the globe. My children and grandchildren could read your words, and think those horrendous things about me, Mr. Kerry. You are a bold-faced unprincipled liar and a disgrace. You have dishonored me and all my fellow Vietnam veterans! Sure, there were a couple of bad-apples, but I saw none and I saw it all. And if I did, as an army officer, it was my obligation to stop it, or at the very least, report it. Why is there not a single record anywhere of you ever reporting any incidents like this or having the perpetrators arrested? The answer is simple. You are a liar! Your medals and mine are not a free pass for lifetime, Senator Kerry, to bypass character, integrity, and morality. I earn my green beret over and over, daily, in all aspects of my life. Eight National Guard green berets, and other National Guard soldiers have been killed in Iraq and Afghanistan and you totally dishonored their widows and families by lumping National Guard service in with being a draft-dodger, conscientious objector, and deserter, just so you can try to sabotage the patriotism of our President, who proudly served as an Air National Guard jet pilot. I have a son earning his green beret at Fort Bragg right now and his wife serves honorably in the Air National Guard (just as did our President) and I am as proud of her as I am of my own son. I volunteered for Vietnam and have no problem whatsoever with President Bush being our Commander-In-Chief. In fact, I am proud of him as our leader. Senator Kerry, you personally derailed the Vietnam Human Rights Bill, HR2883 in 2001 after it passed the House by a 411 to 1 vote and thousands of pro-American Montagnard tribes people in Vietnam died since then who could otherwise have been saved. Earlier, as Chair of the Senate Select Committee on MIA/Pow Affairs, you personally quashed the efforts of any and all veterans to report sightings of living POW's, when you held those reins in Congress. You have fought tooth and nail to push for the United States to nomalize relations with Vietnam for years. Why, Mr. Kerry? Simple, your first cousin, C. Steward Forbes, CEO of Colliers, International, recently signed a contract with Hanoi that is worth billions of dollars for Colliers, International to become the exclusive real estate representative for the country of Vietnam. "Hanoi John" now that it works for you, you beat your chest about your Vietnam service. But to me, you are a phony, opportunistic hypocrite. You are one of those politicians that is like a fertilizer machine, all that's coming out is horse manure and you are spreading it everywhere! Medals do not make a man. Morals do! Don Bendell - Cannon City, Colorado......PLEASE FORWARD TO ALL ON YOUR E-MAIL LIST, THANKS!'


I still have several letters from Sara Ellyn I have not posted, and I'm behind about 13 Grandkidlets. Oh well! On Saturday evening Andrea and I picked up Rita Hathorn and we went to the Methodist Church on Memorial where I went to Lifeway counseling sessions (../0029.html and ../0031.html) for Kristin Henderson's wedding. A lot of pomp and circumstance, with a male and a female pastor. Every time I go to something like this I appreciate that much more the simplistic beauty of and authority behind a temple marriage for time and eternity. The reception was very nice. It was at the Lakeside Country Club on Wilcrest Drive, where Andrea and I went to the GSH Awards Banquet (../0018.html). Good food, good entertainment, and I'd assume the wine was good, but Rita turned her drink back in because she didn't like it. The tables were assigned, and Andrea explained to me that this was necessary to keep people from sitting by those they have been offended by. I noted we were not assigned to the same table as other couples from Green Trails Estates, so I guess that means I'm black listed. Oh well! Anyway, the young people we sat by did pass on the news about the passing of Ronald Reagan."

I'm interested in sharing weekly a "thoughtlet" (little statements of big thoughts which mean a lot to me) with you because I know how important the written word can be. I am concerned about how easy it is to drift and forget our roots and our potential among all of distractions of daily life. To download any of these thoughtlets go to http://www.walden3d.com/thoughtlets or e-mail me at rnelson@walden3d.com.

With all my love,
Dad
(H. Roice Nelson, Jr.)

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